J and N fight a lot - which by popular belief means they
love each other a lot. But after the fight is over does the love go up or down?
I think that depends on the kind of fight they have just had. I happen to think
there are three kinds of fights – a bad fight, a really bad fight and a really
really bad fight. A really really
bad fight is when both parties involved do not know what they are fighting
about and it can go on and on…Man..really really bad fights are scary and
boring…this word "really really bad fight" is giving me a squiggly line which
makes me think it is grammatically incorrect. May be back when the grammar was
invented J and N were not fighting. Which makes me think may be it’s time
someone should rewrite the grammar and why not? Things improve over time so why
not grammar? Which makes me think I should be the one who should be re-writing
the grammar because why not..which makes me think writing grammar should be a pretty
big task and it will make me do work. I distinctly remember I explain to a lot
of people these days that I do not have
time to do anything these days and if I had time I would just sit on the couch
and do nothing…..doing nothing …. Which makes me think doing nothing may be
very close – very very close – to doing meditation. Which makes me think if
doing nothing also means doing something, then why would that even be my goal?
Goals…now this makes me think..really really think..there are 2 schools of
thought going on here..some people say it’s a must to have goals and stick with
them no matter what..and some people say it’s good to have goals but we should be
flexible about them..like for example, if my goal was to have a nap on a weekend
and then on Sunday I realize oh my god, no nap?? Then I should remind myself,
it is good to have goals, but I should be flexible. Which makes me think why
would I not even take a nap on a weekend…hmmmm…could it be a bad fight? A really
bad fight? Or may be a really really bad fight???
